“I have never had multiple boyfriends before. It’s always been one person. That’s the first one. I have never dated two people at the same time in my life. I have never done it before.”
A lady has sparked conversations on social media after sharing a video outlining what she described as personal lifestyle choices she believes many Nigerian Gen Zs may not relate to.
In the viral clip, she stressed that her experiences and decisions were not intended to judge others but to explain her own values.
According to her, the video was the first part of a series highlighting aspects of her life that she considers uncommon among people in her generation.
She listed several personal choices, particularly regarding relationships and sexual behaviour, which she said she has maintained throughout her life.
Lady says she has never dated multiple partners
The lady began by saying she has never had multiple boyfriends or dated two people at the same time.
“I have never had multiple boyfriends before. It’s always been one person. That’s the first one. I have never dated two people at the same time in my life. I have never done it before.”
She also revealed that she has never had sexual relations with anyone she was not in a committed relationship with.
“I have never slept with a person that I am not in a relationship with. I have never attempted that. If you and I are not in a relationship, you cannot see my panties. That’s a period.”
Says she has never exchanged sex for money
The lady further stated that she has never considered prostitution or accepted money in exchange for sex.
“I have never thought of being a prostitute before. I have never attempted. I have never slept with a person in exchange for money. I have never done it before.”
She added that she has never participated in a threesome.
“Threesome. I have never attempted threesome in my life. Never have I thought of having a threesome with anybody in my life.”
Explains why she avoids married men
Speaking further, the lady said she has never dated a married man and intentionally avoids such relationships because they make her uncomfortable.
“I have never dated a married man before. I have never had a relationship with a married man before in my life. If I have a married man coming to disturb me, they want to date me, I have never attempted because I fear that so much.”
She concluded by admitting she could not fully explain her fear but insisted she had never been involved in such a relationship.
“I don’t know why I am scared of it because life is not black and white but yeah, I have never done that before.”
