October 23, 2026

Lady shares her awkward first date experience after her talking stage demanded she pay for her meal

One morning, my talking stage called me. He said, “Hey Princess, I was just thinking about you. I’d like to take you out on a date.”

Note that he called me first.. I didn’t ask him. I agreed, checked my schedule, and later called him back to say I would be free by 6 p.m.

When I arrived, everything went well. We talked, laughed, and had a really good conversation. The vibe was nice.

After some time, we ordered food and ate. Everything still seemed normal. When it was time to leave, I told him, “It’s getting late. I need to head home.”

He looked at me and asked, “Going where?” I was confused and replied, “I don’t understand.” He then said, “No, you can’t just go home like that. Didn’t you see what I bought for you?”

At that point, the bill had not even been paid. He suggested we go to his place and spend the night. When I asked why, he said he expected us to go back to his house together after the date.

I told him I couldn’t do that. Immediately, he became upset. He said if I wasn’t going home with him, then I should pay for my own food and also refund him the transport fare he spent to take me out. He claimed I should appreciate him for everything he had done.

I was shocked. I reminded him that I never asked him to take me out on a date. I refused to refund the money.. not because I didn’t have it, but because I shouldn’t have to pay for something I didn’t request.

He called the waiter and asked for separate bills, saying I would pay for my meal while he paid for his. At that moment, I stood up and told him that if he couldn’t pay the bill, he should wash plates in the restaurant to settle it.

I left, took a keke to the next bus stop, and booked a ride home because it was already late. Afterwards, he started bombarding me with insults.