It Is Good To Be In A Relationship With Your Friend But You Should Consider These 4 Factors First
People can choose their friends but they cannot choose who they will have the feeling of love for . If truly people can choose who to have the feeling for, most people would not have ended up with who they ended up with.
Most times, “Friendship Zone” is one of the centres where the feeling of love normally generate from. It is no news that constant intimacy activates the feeling of love.
Due to “Friendship Zone“, there are times people die in silence; get scared of expressing how they truly feel about each other even when the existence of the feeling is obvious. To make issues worse, the feeling is most times omni-directional (from both parties) but expression is always a problem.
The tussle is always about who will express his/her first. Plus the feeling of jealousy is always at its peak whenever the person is constantly seen with the opposite gender.
More often than not, people get scared of voicing how they feel about their friends because;
- Having a lover and a friend forever OR
- Losing a friend forever.
Still, it is a risk worth taking. Don’t be timid if the feeling is real except;
1. He/she is in a serious relationship with another.
2 He/she is in love with another.
3. You have indirectly asked him/her of his/her opinion about having a relationship with his/her best friend.
4. His/her personality does not fit into the picture of someone you wish to have relationship with.
Whatever the case may be, don’t stay in the friendship zone for too long if what you feel is true and the situations surrounding it are beneficial.
