These days, Women seem to be very picky when it comes to choosing their partner..Well shocker guys-Men are picky too when it comes to dating. If you are single and out there dating, I am sure you know what I mean and very aware of just how choosy men are or can be when they want to.
Women are particular too – don’t get me wrong, but somehow the men seem to be worse. By fact, men have an idea in their head of a type of gal to whom they are attracted, and trust me sweetie, either you fit the mold or you don’t fit it.
However, occasionally and in very few cases ,a man will fall for a girl who is outside of his wheelhouse. Now,Wouldn’t it be great if you could be that woman who could attract ANY GUY (within reason of course)?
What if I could tell you how to be the girl every guy wants?
Be that woman who makes him feel great about himself and makes him feel needed
Men love the girls who play to their ego and make them feel like Superman. Yea they really like that .If a guy doesn’t understand how he is needed in your life, he won’t fall in love with you.I know this can a bit shitty for my boss chicks out there but this is sheer fact hunnie trust me. Ask him about his opinion and then give him good remarks and tell him how great his dreams are too.
Be A flirtatious Woman
Men love when a woman is a good flirt — not cheesy, not sleazy,not nasty flirty.. just fun. Make the most of it when you are alone or on a phone with him. Learn how to “smeyes” — smile with your eyes. The guys love that and will definitely have it down foryou.Whisper how great he looks in that jeans into his ears. Light touches and intercept eye contacts not directly just shy yet sweet.
Keep in mind that if a man wanted to be with a man, he would be.But you are a girl…his girl! So be girly, be feminine, be a woman. It is the tenderness when you talk, the grace,the kindness that makes your femininity loud.What does that mean? Smell good, wear those pretty gowns, do those nails,cook him a meal once in a while, mother him, let him rest on laps, rub his hair when he needs it especially after a long day.
Men love women who are sexy and who KNOW they are sexy.They word is to Know.You have to realize that you are sexy because that’s the first step. Be confident! The word sexy has no real definition these days — the key ingredient is that you FEEL sexy about yourself and then he will sense it and thinks you are H-O-T, hot. Have this bomb ass fashion sense, Take care of yourself, walk into that hall like a price that you are!
Be the woman who lights up the room
This is tricky and It’s a fact; if all of his friends are “ooohing and ahhing” over you, he will be attracted to you all the more.Be social with his friends.Be the Queen who has the vibes too . Light up the room with your elegance and your superb Smile. Don’t act too bossy when you are with him or his friends. Engage them in good intellect conversation that will leave him feeling good about his choice and his friends amazed.
Be adaptable in any situation.
Be flexible in every way -with beer at a fancy get-together party, pizza on sports night, hot at an all night club day and even on boring work function And, he wants you to do it with ease.You really have to fit in without having a growl on your face. If you think that men fall in love with the “hard to get” women, think again. Not in today’s world. Today men really fall for easy-going girls who can go with the flow without much drama or too much pleading coming or associated with it.
Be your own kind of Woman.
Be that mystery girl and remember He is not your happiness but just takes part in it.Dont be one to let everything about you out after the first meeting allow him discover you slowly. you always have to remember this whenever you want to depend on him to provide everything you need in life for fun. Men love a woman who has her own life with different things happening- hang out with the girls.. go for that trip. Don’t cling to him like your life is dwelling on his. Show him that you were doing all good before he met you and even though you are grateful he is here with you.. you still have your life. No man wants a girl who is always sitting at home waiting for him or a woman who needs him to provide 100 percent of the fun. Nah!!
Remember the little things..
You know men can be treated like princess too. They want love as much as you want it too and remember it is the little things that matter not the large things..Remember his favorite food, his birthday and wan get him gifts too(oh-yes that’s right). Most of them haven’t experienced that and have this notion that no girl would so what do you think happens when you are the only girl that does it for them.. Remind me who will be ‘His Queen’?
Be Smart, but not a know-it-all.
Men like women who have it together and who won’t embarrass them in a conversation; Don’t be the type to parade your knowledge to his face. Be smart yet open to learn new things , they like women who know something about a lot of different things but doesn’t intimidate people with this knowledge. You should know when to chip in your thoughts about a topic no matter how well you know it. Don’t shut people up just to prove your point.It doesn’t have to be politics and sports, it just has to be something you are passionate about and truly understand.Be open to hearing what people know anyway. Men hate know-it-alls; they make them feel emasculated and you don’t want to be that woman who makes him feel that way.Drop that quality NOW!!
Be the woman who never restricts a guy.
A woman who, not only allows a guy have his time with his boys but insists he still has his life too. Don’t be that girl that never wants him talking to old time friends or scaring away his friends. You don’t have to Mark your territory aggressively and if he really like you won’t need to do all that. Trust your partner and never let him get scared of sharing stories about his female friends to you. Remind him calmly that you live him and trust him.The catch is that you have to really mean it. And if you do, he will be thinking about you the whole time he is out and won’t even notice the other girls around him.
Don’t be a drama queen
Dont be that woman that makes a mountain out of an ant hill..yes ! Men may be attracted to them for their loudness but trust me it is just for a short time just keep it calm and don’t allow him to stress a lotbevause no one loves stress hunnie. Don’t try to see things in a conspicuous way at all just keep it neutral and sane.(I know we ladies overthink.. I know that for sure) but it doesn’t get us any where in the relationship.
Be his peace
In conclusion.. Every man wants that girl that will keep his head above the waters and not deep in the waters.. Be his peace and don’t keep hitting on him with all your troubles and nags. You don’t always have to grey him everyday with one of the many of your troubles. Be the person that calms his head after a long day. Take off his jacket and give him that sweet 10-20 seconds massage on his shoulders.Don’t Nag! No one likes that
If you keep to all these tips trust me you may find yourself lost in choice on who to choose because everyone wants a good lady who makes them feel unique. The world has so much love to give but so very little persons have found this but if you can show that you can be smart, sweet , and the peace a man needs , You are a rare stock!